tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699140335492941204.post1118864137298385638..comments2023-05-31T03:25:32.836-07:00Comments on Ranch on Mars: 0004 Zelera 14: DividendKristina Tracerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03511740779372210878noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699140335492941204.post-77734446132871595012009-04-27T15:50:00.000-07:002009-04-27T15:50:00.000-07:00@otter3: I'd love the chance to talk Guides with y...@otter3: I'd love the chance to talk Guides with you at some point, too, on top of the other conversations we should have.<br /><br />@Cobaltie: I definitely think that we should find a time for the four of us to sit and just... talk... about this stuff. I'll confess, I'd love the chance to act on a lot of this, but first I'd like to make sure everyone's got a similar comfort zone... or a willingness or desire to be dragged out of same. *grin*<br /><br />Kristy<br /><br />KristyKristina Tracerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03511740779372210878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699140335492941204.post-31169779390145563682009-04-27T15:47:00.000-07:002009-04-27T15:47:00.000-07:00@nickylion: It's not that I'm not comfortable with...@nickylion: It's not that I'm not comfortable with any of it, really. It's... does it make any sense to say that it's all fine and that it's been fine for years, but that I was running on previously-held assumptions that were out-of-date? I <EM>enjoy</EM> being a domme under the right circumstances, but I never thought of myself as being that kind of person, only that I could "top from the bottom," as it were. Having had to reconsider my assumptions, I've realized that the tendencies are there that I just never studied.<br /><br />KristyKristina Tracerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03511740779372210878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699140335492941204.post-45328422495534621292009-04-27T14:46:00.000-07:002009-04-27T14:46:00.000-07:00It's really beautiful, what you did. Though fr...It's really beautiful, what you did. Though from what I know there was a lot of previous work done to get Kin to the state where she could just drop into it at a trigger, it's neat that you did something about it. :-}<br /><br />On a more specific note on #2 above, you're not the first. One of my first experiences with Kin 5 or 6 years ago involved accidentally dropping her into a suggestive state (and another character, bubbledoll mouse), while we were both in already altered states. It both surprised and scared me a little, just to discover that I did actually have a dominant side. It still mystifies me sometimes, as I'll continue to claim 'goddammit, I want to be a sub!', only to realize that in many situations I'll be dominant by default if only because nobody else wants to. Recent experiences switching with Rowan, too, have definitely shown my switchiness and how fun it can be. <br /><br />Also, investments: <br /><br /><3 returns <3<3<3<3<3<br /><br />o.o returns @.@ @.@<br /><br />^_^ returns ~_~Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01639241860178639695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699140335492941204.post-40497308185093502232009-04-27T03:19:00.000-07:002009-04-27T03:19:00.000-07:00Well, also, welcome to Neptune. Feel free to parta...Well, also, welcome to Neptune. Feel free to partake of the kelp. Just avoid the one with green spots for a little while - it takes a bit of getting used to.<br /><br />You can use hypnosis for parlor tricks, yes. And the sensation for not being fully in control of one's mind can be particularly disturbing for those people who tend to put a premium on such matters. I think I used to be one of those people, a long long time ago. But the fact is that there is a depth in hypnosis that generally gets ignored by many of the blatant control fetishists. The idea of a dynamic D/s scene I think does the concept much better than just a pure power play. Kin, I believe, has been complaining about this in some form or other for some time.<br /><br />As for pretending one's Guide is something just a shade different than the actual... I'm not familiar with that at all. No, not one bit. No briar patch here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3699140335492941204.post-32946637501521148422009-04-27T00:26:00.000-07:002009-04-27T00:26:00.000-07:00Wow, and here I thought you were way more comforta...Wow, and here I thought you were way more comfortable with some of the things I find as the foci of my fetishes. And at the same time, I feel way more comfortable with you exploring it knowing that. Kin's a wonderful guide (and a really cute droid), and I only hope that there's a chance for me to do some exploring with you as well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com